From Exhausted to Empowered: 5 Self-Care Rituals That Will Change Your Life
Shauna Hay-Viets | MAR 4, 2025

As a busy mom, your days are packed—caring for everyone else, juggling responsibilities, and running on autopilot. It’s no wonder exhaustion creeps in, leaving you feeling depleted, irritable, and disconnected from yourself. But self-care isn’t just about bubble baths and spa days (though those are great!); it’s about intentional rituals that refuel your mind, body, and soul.
If you’re ready to shift from exhausted to empowered, here are five self-care rituals that will truly change your life.
Why it works: Starting your day in reactive mode (waking up to a crying child or a buzzing phone) sets a stressful tone. But taking five intentional minutes for yourself before the chaos begins can change everything.
How to do it:
☀️ Wake up 5 minutes earlier than usual.
🌿 Sit quietly, stretch, or sip tea in peace.
📝 Set an intention for the day (e.g., “I will embrace patience”).
💡 Bonus tip: Try deep breathing—5 slow inhales and exhales—to center yourself before the day begins.
Why it works: Rushing through your to-do list without breaks leads to burnout. Tiny mindful pauses allow you to recharge without taking extra time.
How to do it:
⏸️ Set a reminder to pause every 2-3 hours.
💆♀️ Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and do a quick body scan (How am I feeling? What do I need?).
💖 Give yourself permission to take up space and rest.
Why it works: Constant notifications, emails, and social media overstimulate your brain and drain your energy. A simple digital detox can help you feel more present and relaxed.
How to do it:
📵 Choose one hour a day (before bed, during dinner, etc.) to disconnect from screens.
📚 Replace scrolling with something soothing—reading, journaling, or a quick stretch.
🛌 Give yourself permission to rest without guilt.
💡 Bonus tip: If completely unplugging feels impossible, start with 15 minutes and gradually increase.
Why it works: If your mind races at night, making it hard to sleep, a soothing nighttime ritual can signal your body that it’s time to relax.
How to do it:
🌙 Set a consistent bedtime (even 30 minutes earlier can make a difference!).
🕯️ Dim the lights, diffuse essential oils, or play calming music.
📖 Swap screens for a good book or guided meditation.
💡 Bonus tip: Try journaling one positive thing from your day—it rewires your brain to focus on gratitude.
Why it works: Movement releases stress, boosts mood, and re-energizes you. But it doesn’t have to be an intense workout—just intentional movement that makes you feel good.
How to do it:
🧘♀️ Roll out your yoga mat for 5-10 minutes of stretching.
🚶 Take a mindful walk (no phone, just deep breaths and nature).
🎶 Put on your favorite song and dance it out!
💡 Bonus tip: Schedule movement before your energy dips (e.g., a midday stretch break or morning yoga).
Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s the foundation of your well-being. These rituals don’t require extra time you don’t have; they fit seamlessly into your already full life.
If you’re ready to take self-care to the next level, join my Yoga for Self-Care Online membership —it’s designed just for busy moms like you!

Shauna Hay-Viets is a mom of two and a yoga instructor with 13+ years of experience. Shauna specializes in teaching busy moms how to reduce stress and create balance through yoga and mindfulness. Shauna is passionate about helping her students achieve their greatest goals on and off the mat.
Shauna Hay-Viets | MAR 4, 2025
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